What a great movie! i went with my mom to see it the other night & we were fucking dying while we watched it! the whole theater was cracking up! it is a romantic comedy but i think this is one chick flick guys will appreciate & enjoy. it's so dirty for a chick flick. guys will love the numerous amounts of sexual innuendos as well as the constant reminder that all men want is some good head & sex. i really recommend it for couples to see :)on another note, i haven't had anything to really post about since i've been so busy with two jobs. i haven't had the time, or energy, to sit down & fuss with this. as far as life with the boyfriend goes, all is good. we had some great phone sex again last night but nothing to really post about; it was pretty much the same as my last post. he has this thing about masturbating, he just doesn't care for it. he'd rather fuck me than use his hand but since i'm not there he really has no choice haha. even when he's super horny, he just doesn't like to do it. why is that (can i get a brother's opinion please?!)? i know he's of the small percentage of the male population that doesn't like to do it but even getting him to have phone sex is like pulling teeth. as much as i turn him on, he just hates doing it because it's "too much work." hmm, maybe that's the ugly truth about masturbating, sometimes it's just too much work. i love touching myself; yes it requires work but i still love having an orgasm! how can i get him to enjoy doing the deed as much as i do?
I can kinda relate to your man's feelings. I think it's just different for guys; our orgasms tend to be pretty short (I've always been jealous of women in that respect). Sometimes you want the whole experience of feeling you woman's body while having an orgasm, it's so much better! When you're alone (as a guy) when it's over, you realize it's just you, so you clean up and go back to your business. When you're with your woman, you may have had your orgasm, but there's so much more you can do to just live in that moment. He's right; the two really don't compare.
ReplyDeletei know how he feels, it's nothing compared to when he's here with me. but when you're in a long distance relationship how do you manage a sex life? i do everything i can to keep the spark. i know he won't stray but i still know enough about men that they need sex. so i take pictures, send him videos, text him dirty things, anything i can do to make it clear i want him bad.
ReplyDeleteYeah, I can understand what you're saying. but I say give your man some credit. even for a guy, feeling close to someone is about more than just the feeling of an orgasm. I imagine he aches for you being so far away for so long. being away for three months at a time, seeing pics and videos of you probably makes the ache worse, not saying you shouldn't do that though (i think its really hot).
ReplyDeleteby the way, maybe i missed it in a previous post, why is he so far away? Is he in school or something? Has your relationship always been long distance or were you together in the same city at one point?
haha it's a very long story. i may post the complete truth one day but we'll see. for now i'll give you this: we met about 4 years ago, after i moved to california. we stopped talking for about 3 years and got back in touch last september. from september to december we were 'talking' and finally began dating in december. it's pretty much always been a long distance relationship between us, and it will continue to be for the next 3 years until one of us can make the move. i tried to do so this year but due to financial reasons i couldn't move.
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